Wonderwoman

The girlfriend(or ex for that matter) recently chanced upon a post on my Facebook, in which I expressed my intention to see Kericia again. Needless to say I incurred her wrath and we broke up. . . conveniently via SMS. Although I was disappointed with her attitude toward that issue I have to admit, I have been treating her rather unfairly.

Knowing the ex, she's never going to listen to me so I decided I should take this chance to reminisce. You see, the sad thing about Kericia, is that our friendship soured; simply because I broke the rules and let's just say desperately tried to get out of the friend zone. I failed of course, to my regret. Before then, we had a short history as good friends and colleagues often confiding in each other and working together as a team(of sorts).

I have an enormous amount of respect and admiration for her like she's some kinda icon. She represented feminism and that's really cool. Fact: she's the only woman in my life who proved herself worthy of leadership in an environment ruled by men. Fiesty, fiercely loyal and selfless she resembles Mulan, the heroine from an ancient chinese tale. Despite her age, this 25 year old and mother of two is not to be messed with, because she has an amazing history, enough to be weaved into some kinda drama series. Out of every experience she grew into a sensible and matured woman; which was one of the reasons I took towards her.

Kericia certainly isn't flawless but at best she isn't one bit the materialistic kind, has a free spirit, pleasant and sensitive towards people, holds herself well, respects her peers, works hard and most of all loves her kids. In a relationship, she's definitely not the kind who would demand something from her partner. Her partner instead, willingly submits himself to her. Now anywhere this girl goes anyone will want to be her friend and employers would value her as an asset.

I know by this time if the girlfriend ever does read this she'd be fuming mad but she if doesn't understand the reason for my admiration towards Kericia then suffice to say; she's incapable of accepting my past and the various people I've met throughout my life. Most importantly, she doesn't value the fact that she actually possesses me or the fact that she would someday for her patience and appreciation get the very best from me.

PS: I appreciated her efforts to make me an impromptu Christmas card, which was very sweet.